Footballer's wife expecting IVF baby after his death

Ewan Gawneand
Anna Jameson,North West
News imageBBC A woman with brown hair holds up a small girl in one arm while standing next to an older girl, both her daughters. They are smiling while standing inside what appears to be a club house. Each is wearing a black 'Joe Thompson Foundation' t-shirt. BBC
Chantelle Thompson said she and her two daughters were "excited" to be welcoming a baby boy

The widow of a former footballer who died of cancer is now pregnant with his child after a successful round of IVF in she described as "bittersweet but beautiful news".

Joe Thompson died of Hodgkin's lymphoma in April last year after his third cancer diagnosis in a decade, having twice recovered during a playing career that included three spells at Rochdale AFC.

His widow Chantelle told the BBC she is expecting a baby boy in what had been a "pick up for the whole family" after planning the treatment with Joe before his death.

"It means a lot to me and I am really proud to be carrying his baby," she said.

Chantelle and Joe already had two daughters while he was alive and always planned to have a big family.

She said: "Before Joe passed we had quite a few detailed conversations of what that would look like if Joe wasn't here and we both knew it was something that we wanted to do."

News imageRochdale AFC Joe Thompson. He has cropped brown hair and is wearing a dark blue t-shirt. Rochdale AFC
Joe Thompson retired in 2019 after making more than 200 appearances for Rochdale

Thompson, who was born in Bath, was first diagnosed with cancer in 2013 at the age of 23 and again in 2017 - before a third diagnosis in 2024 led to his death aged 36 last year.

He started out in Manchester United's academy before playing for various other clubs including Rochdale.

Months before his death, he led hundreds of people on a walk from Old Trafford to Rochdale's ground to raise awareness of cancer treatments.

And on Saturday his wife and daughters repeated that 15-mile trek alongside hundreds of others including Thompson's friends and family to raise funds for the Joe Thompson Foundation.

News imagePeople wearing black t-shirts gathered on a pavement outside the walls of a football ground where a mural of Joe Thompson wearing a blue Rochdale AFC t-shirt is painted.
Joe Thompson was remembered as a 'beacon of light' at his funeral

Chantelle, who is 29 weeks' pregnant, said she was feeling all the happiness that comes with having a baby, "but on the flip side, I am doing this alone".

"I've got a great family network and I wouldn't be able to do this without them, but it's still not Joe," she said.

Her daughter Thailula, 13, said the year since her father's death had been a "rollercoaster".

She and her mum had been "picking each other up" in times of sadness, she said, and she was "so excited" to welcome a baby boy into the family.

"Grief comes in waves", Chantelle said, adding there are milestones like her anniversaries or her daughter's birthdays where she "expected to be broken, but I'm not".

But the grief can hit during seemingly-innocuous interactions like bumping into someone at the shop, she said.

News imageA number of people wearing black t-shirts in support of the Joe Thompson foundation walk forward smiling.
Hundreds of people walked from Rochdale's ground to Old Trafford in Thompson's memory

Thompson, who also played for Tranmere Rovers, Bury and Carlisle, was remembered as a "beacon of hope" at his funeral in May last year.

His foundation was established to help people who need support with grief, loss or hardship.

It is that legacy that fans like Chris Pedley, a season ticketholder with Rochdale, turned out on Saturday to support.

"It's his legacy, that's why I wanted to be here," he said.

News imageA man in a black cap in a black t-shirt stands in front of a crowd of people.
Aaron Burns became friends with Thompson when the pair were in Manchester United's academy

Aaron Burns, who met Thompson when the pair came through at Manchester United's academy said he was "one of my best friends, and it's really important we keep his legacy alive".

"It's been tough when you lose your best friend early and he suffered with cancer three times, which sometimes feels a little bit unfair," he said.

"Our job is to support the family, and move forward in honour of Joe."

News imageA man standing inside by a plant holds up a black t-shirt which reads 'Joe Thompson Foundation Annual Legacy Walk 2026' in green lettering. He is smiling and has a short beard and cropped brown hair.
Steven Davis played alongside Joe for Rochdale

Steven Davis, who played with Thompson at Rochdale, also turned out to take part in the walk, and said he was responsible for one of his "best memories from football".

Among his career highlights, Thompson scored a dramatic winner for Rochdale against Charlton Athletic on 5 May 2018, a year after his second cancer diagnosis, in a result that helped saved the club from relegation to League Two.

"He fought his way back and he scored the goal against Charlton to keep us up and it was probably one of my best memories from football," Davis said.

"I was a professional for 17 years and that goal that Joe scored was really meaningful, and it meant something."

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