Man reveals heartbreak of losing family in Nepal floods

News imagePramod Poudel Five people stand outdoors in front of hills and buildings in a rural area. Trees and mountains are visible in the background.Pramod Poudel
Pramod Poudel (left) said several members of his family were still missing

A man who lost his family in floods in Nepal says he struggles to accept that they are gone as he speaks of his heartbreak after returning from the country.

Pramod Poudel, 34, from Uckfield, East Sussex, travelled to Nepal after losing contact with his wife Sumitra, mother Tulisa, brother Pardip and uncle Madhav following the disaster. He says now he does not believe they will be found.

About 1,400 people died while more than 6,000 people are still missing following the disaster, according to official data.

Speaking on his return, he said: "My heart is still saying that there might be something there, but I have to be realistic and accept that they are not there anymore."

News imagePramod Poudel Two people are pictured outdoors beneath a large tree, standing close together and facing the camera.Pramod Poudel
Pramod travelled to Nepal after losing contact with his wife, Sumitra

He added: "It was very hard to see all of the people in my community, and all of the houses that have been destroyed.

"I don't know what the future holds now. I was away from my family for the last 15 or 16 years, and I want to stay closer to them now."

Flood waters caused devastation after hitting the Nepal-Tibet border on 26 August.

Scientists say the floods were caused by a collapse of rock wall and glacier ice near the peak of Langtang Lirung, a mountain on Nepal's side of the Himalayas.

Poudel, who moved to the UK in 2009, said when he arrived in the area where his family lived there was "nothing left".

News imageGetty Images An aerial view shows widespread flood damage in a town in Nepal. Large areas are covered in mud and debris, several buildings appear damaged or destroyed, and a riverbed runs through the scene.Getty Images
Flooding has killed about 1,400 people and left thousands missing

Losing his family, he said was "very, very sad", adding that hundreds of others in the community were gone too, calling the destruction "unimaginable".

Funeral rituals for his family were due to be held earlier this month.

Following the floods, Poudel said that he wanted to help rebuild his community after it was destroyed in the disaster.

He said: "I need to look at the bigger picture to cope. If I can help my community, and my school and my family, then that would be good for them."

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